How to Influence People to Get What You Want

Online business needs lot of efforts and consistent hardwork to generate decent income. There’s nothing like get-rich-quick scheme, you should be working hard to reach your goals.

You need to influence others to stand out from the remaining crowd. You really can’t do anything in online, if you can’t motivate, educate others.

Do you know one secret that can make anyone to buy your products??

It is…

..educating the people about your products.

How can anyone buy your stuff if they don’t have any idea of what you’re selling?

So you must be educating your audience before making them to purchase your products.

Okay lets get to the point now. There are CERTAIN rules you can apply to influence others to get what you want. I don’t say these are sure fire tips to succeed, but they’ll certainly help you to create some impact on others.

4 ways to influence others to get what you want


Build a great network around your blog

No one will interested to read your stuff when you’ve no active community running on your blog. Blog comments, social media interaction are the best ways to build a thriving network around your blog. Because it will work as a great social proof for your blog and it will help you create a quick impact on the first time visitors to take some action.

Don’t post generic contents, always make sure you’ve something to say with your audience. Try to add immense value to your blog posts and to you readers. This can help you build a better business in the long run. Yes, building a better blog/business takes time, and it worth every minute. It will also help you influence others and make someone actually listen to your words to buy your stuff or linking to your products.

Try to be an expert in your field (or be master at ONE field)

Do you listen to you an expert or a novice blogger when you’ve any problem related to blogging or online business? Obviously expert advice, right?

Try to become a master in your field. I’m not at all suggesting you to become master of all trades, but make sure you’re master at at least one field.  It’s how you can influence people to get what you want, it’s how you can make great impact on others.

Spend quality time on learning the best stuff related to your niche, share your views with others, discuss your problems and notice the pattern how your competitors are growing and find the holes to fill them up on your blogs to build larger audience. You’ve to be unique to create great impact.

Don’t share random stuff on social media sites

Make sure you’re sharing something that’s really helpful for your business. What kinda things do you expect from Facebook fans if you often fill your Facebook pages with jokes and all? Always ask yourself this question before you sharing anything on social media sites.

Will it add any value to my audience??

If yes.. go ahead.

Don’t be a go getter

How to influence others?

Most of the online marketers, bloggers will think – it’s better to be a go-getter. What happens when you become a go getter?

You simply don’t deserve others noticing you. You always worry ONLY about yourself. And that’s the worst way to handle any online business.

You should also be thinking about others. In fact, you should ONLY be thinking about others.

You should become a go-giver instead of go-getter.

You can bring more people attention to your blog/business, when you

  • Add value to your posts
  • Share others stuff
  • Promote their products
  • Help them grow their business

This is how you can actually create great impact on others.

So what are your views about influencing others to get what you want?

About Rahul Kuntala

Do you want to make a living from blogging? Learn the ultimate blogging tips written by freelancer cum full time blogger Rahul Kuntala.


  1. Great article, Rahul!

    To get what you want, you need to learn to give your visitors what they want. Although it’s your goal you want to meet, your online presence shouldn’t be about you; it should be about them. How are you serving them better? How are your posts impacting their lives? How are you helping them solve their problems. What are you doing to make their lives easier, richer or better?

    Focus on them and they’ll deliver what you want.

  2. Hi Rahul,

    I think it is so important to know what your talking about. You can’t sell an item if you only know a few details about it. Making sure your content in your blogs are exciting and readable are important too. Your not going to get people to come back frequently if they are bored..

  3. I think what you have here is very true because our primary aim for any business should be about satisfying your customer.We must always show commitment and dedication to what we do and instead of filling up your pages with jokes, we should learn to offer value.I mean the real value they want from us.Our core value should not be our own selfish interest but also dedicated to helping others grow their business and in turn we will surely get what we also want

  4. This is very true about giving people what they want, if you desire to get what you want. On the internet, if you serve your readers with valuable content, you’ll always get what you want, which is steady and growing advertising revenue. The goal is to focus on quality, not quantity! :-)

  5. When you start to notice other people and what they need is when you start to succeed. It’s so true that when a newbie first starts out blogging, they are thinking of themselves alone. If you don’t change your strategy then that’s where you’ll end up in a year. Alone.

    Start thinking that you can’t do this without the help of others, and they cannot do it without your help either!

  6. Helping others is the best way to get a new client. With the products I provide it’s easy for me to provide helpful info for people that aren’t that knowledgable about the product and it’s application. I know my viewers are looking for info on hair weave so not only can I provide this info but I can also show them the end result which helps them to see themselves using the product.

    • Helping others what matter in the long run, especially in online business, you need to have great connections with others to succeed.

      No matter how great content you’ve, you should be interacting with others to create great impact

  7. It takes time like anything else and I doubt there are any shortcuts. For sure consistency and constant exposure is a way to achieve success.

  8. Hi Rahul!

    I believe in Mastering your field. I mean if you are blogging about apples then you should be a master of apples not oranges! :-)


  9. Hi,
    I love to say that, your article is awesome I think your have great knowledge I also learn great knowledge from this article please keep posting that type of articles in future.

  10. Hi Rahul,

    Well in my opinion the best way to influence people is to actually help them with their problems related to your topic. Every little thing counts, even if it’s the most basic stuff, maybe someone doesn’t know how to make it work.

    This way people will come back to your blog again and again, and in time your recommendations to them will be very valuable.

    I really enjoyed reading your post Rahul, nice work. Enjoy your weekend.


  11. I’m an old webmaster and my experience has taught me that the best way to be followed by people is to continuously provide good content. Also make simple things complicated: this is the secret to success.

  12. I believe it takes a lot of time to influence people and best way to influence people is targeting only few people who are masterminds in the niche , thats how you can let the word out about yourself.

  13. I think as a blogger one should try to build trust among his readers, so that they follow your suggestions and do what you actually want them to do. However you should not misuse them, only try to give them right solutions.. no deception.

  14. That was a really a good post. I would also recommend people to read How To Win Friends And Influence People from Dale Carnegie and Think And Grow Rich from Napolean Hill. Both the books teaches you the basic core values needed for the life to influence people and win over their friendship.

  15. I thinking selecting an area at which you are the best will definitely help others with your work and it will be useful to them.Also it is very important to build an active community around your blogs which will increase the visitors involvement and participation.Thanks for sharing this article.

  16. The best way to influence people around you is by being an expert in a particular field and this will surely help.The points outlined in this article have been quite useful to me and i have learned many new things which i was not aware about before.Thanks for sharing this article.

  17. You help others, they help you. When you promote others’ business and blogs they will definitely return the favor to their benefit. Thanks for the great share.

  18. I think you tube is a great way to influence people to get what you want. It is like helping others what they want at the same time getting what you want. I totally agree building a great network around your blog will definitely help you to influence more people and accomplish things that you want. Enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for providing such informative post to your readers.

  19. I like the term go-giver vs go-getter. When you help others, you will receive more in return.

Speak Your Mind


RSS and Marketing Services