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		<title>By: Vernessa Taylor</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-14066</link>
		<dc:creator>Vernessa Taylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Dec 2010 02:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice to meet you, Jean!  Wonderful perspective.  

It helps to remember &quot;who&quot; we&#039;re writing for (&lt;em&gt;our&lt;/em&gt; audience) and that &quot;blogger&quot; is just a designation for someone who writes using a &quot;blogging&quot; platform.  That&#039;s the advice I give myself when I read stuff about how to measure one&#039;s success, popularity, comment numbers, etc.  

Thank you for reminding us to stay true to our own drum beat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice to meet you, Jean!  Wonderful perspective.  </p>
<p>It helps to remember &#8220;who&#8221; we&#8217;re writing for (<em>our</em> audience) and that &#8220;blogger&#8221; is just a designation for someone who writes using a &#8220;blogging&#8221; platform.  That&#8217;s the advice I give myself when I read stuff about how to measure one&#8217;s success, popularity, comment numbers, etc.  </p>
<p>Thank you for reminding us to stay true to our own drum beat.<br />
<span class="cluv">Vernessa Taylor recently posted..<a class="eaafb6e6eb 14066" rel="external" href="http://www.localbusinesscoachonline.com/coachnotes/dance-a-jig-build-your-own-unscientific-blogging-scorecard/">Dance A Jig- Build Your Own Unscientific Blogging Scorecard</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  14066 5f146" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: How to Drive Your Blog to Success in the Slow Lane &#124; Virgin Blogger Notes</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-10182</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Drive Your Blog to Success in the Slow Lane &#124; Virgin Blogger Notes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Sep 2010 11:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] it’s easy to feel you’re somehow ‘less than’ your speedy colleagues or even slip into comparathon mode. After all, getting high traffic volumes or lots of subscribers in a short period of time is [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Jean Sarauer</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-9343</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Sarauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re definitely not alone, Kim! I have to be on the alert for &#039;comparathons&#039; even when setting my own goals. Sometimes I&#039;ll catch myself setting a goal that ends up being based on an industry standard or someone else&#039;s achievement. When I examine it, I realize that&#039;s not something that resonates with my own creative vision. How easy it is to lean the ladders we climb against the wrong walls!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re definitely not alone, Kim! I have to be on the alert for &#8216;comparathons&#8217; even when setting my own goals. Sometimes I&#8217;ll catch myself setting a goal that ends up being based on an industry standard or someone else&#8217;s achievement. When I examine it, I realize that&#8217;s not something that resonates with my own creative vision. How easy it is to lean the ladders we climb against the wrong walls!<br />
<span class="cluv">Jean Sarauer recently posted..<a class="5d0e1fcf7c 9343" rel="external" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VirginBloggerNotes/~3/S5ZLJqH-kCc/">Does Your Blog Have an Individual Voice</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  9343 56848" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-9311</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 02:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for this post, Jean! 
It is so easy, in blogging and in many other areas in life, to get caught up in comparing your blog and yourself to others. I have also run this &#039;comparathon&#039; and have come to the conclusion that being content with myself and my abilities is much less stressful! I think you have more fun, too, when you are not constantly worrying about what others are accomplishing seemingly at a way faster rate than you. :)
Thanks again for the great post! It is always nice to know that I am not alone in these sorts of things! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for this post, Jean!<br />
It is so easy, in blogging and in many other areas in life, to get caught up in comparing your blog and yourself to others. I have also run this &#8216;comparathon&#8217; and have come to the conclusion that being content with myself and my abilities is much less stressful! I think you have more fun, too, when you are not constantly worrying about what others are accomplishing seemingly at a way faster rate than you. :)<br />
Thanks again for the great post! It is always nice to know that I am not alone in these sorts of things! :)</p>
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		<title>By: Jean Sarauer</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8337</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Sarauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 00:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So glad this post could give you a boost, Pete. We all need those! And yes, it really is all about enjoying the blogging process. When we focus on that, things have a way of working out. There are plenty of things we can learn from evaluating other bloggers&#039; work for clues, but it&#039;s hard to see those things clearly when we&#039;re in comparathon mode. Here&#039;s to ignoring the numbers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So glad this post could give you a boost, Pete. We all need those! And yes, it really is all about enjoying the blogging process. When we focus on that, things have a way of working out. There are plenty of things we can learn from evaluating other bloggers&#8217; work for clues, but it&#8217;s hard to see those things clearly when we&#8217;re in comparathon mode. Here&#8217;s to ignoring the numbers!<br />
<span class="cluv">Jean Sarauer recently posted..<a class="38d1fc1e03 8337" rel="external" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VirginBloggerNotes/~3/jRAasFrr3nQ/">How to Grow Your Blog With Kindness</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8337 56848" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Pete Stean</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8332</link>
		<dc:creator>Pete Stean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 23:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi again all - Jean, this post has come as a breath of fresh air to me at the moment. I&#039;m feeling a bit despondent about how lots of other bloggers in my area seem to be doing so much &#039;better&#039; than me in terms of their subscriber numbers, and then I look at my material and wonder what their secret is, because I can&#039;t discern it. 

Again the lesson here is all about enjoying blogging and not getting worried about what other people are or aren&#039;t doing isn&#039;t it</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi again all &#8211; Jean, this post has come as a breath of fresh air to me at the moment. I&#8217;m feeling a bit despondent about how lots of other bloggers in my area seem to be doing so much &#8216;better&#8217; than me in terms of their subscriber numbers, and then I look at my material and wonder what their secret is, because I can&#8217;t discern it. </p>
<p>Again the lesson here is all about enjoying blogging and not getting worried about what other people are or aren&#8217;t doing isn&#8217;t it<br />
<span class="cluv">Pete Stean recently posted..<a class="3d0887bb40 8332" href="http://thelondoneer.blogspot.com/2010/08/london-blogger-interviews-week-2.html">The London Blogger Interviews &#8211; Week 2</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8332 1a16a" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jean Sarauer</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8250</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Sarauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 16:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tony. Yes, we so rarely know the full story or see all the work (and often hard times) that go into these seemingly overnight successes. I&#039;ve been guilty of that myself. There have been times I thought someone caught a &#039;lucky break,&#039; when in reality there was a lot of planning and preparation that went into their getting into a position where they could catch that break.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tony. Yes, we so rarely know the full story or see all the work (and often hard times) that go into these seemingly overnight successes. I&#8217;ve been guilty of that myself. There have been times I thought someone caught a &#8216;lucky break,&#8217; when in reality there was a lot of planning and preparation that went into their getting into a position where they could catch that break.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jean Sarauer recently posted..<a class="f4e4bf794f 8250" rel="external" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VirginBloggerNotes/~3/OwTOAKC0gOU/">10 Plugins to Boost Your Blogging</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8250 56848" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Tony Teegarden</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8245</link>
		<dc:creator>Tony Teegarden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:31:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I so appreciate this article. 

One thing we have to give consideration to is there is always a story behind the story. In my prior industry I would watch people who had been doing their business for 4 or 5 years and when someone new would start they would rocket past them in terms of income and status. 

What they may not have seen is the years of hard work that person had been doing prior to starting at their current company. Just like in blogging, you don&#039;t know how much work they had been doing in other area&#039;s &quot;before&quot; they started their new blog. 

Many times the comparison game is based on out of context thoughts and stories. 

Love this post and you offer some very worthwhile ways of dealing with it. (And stopping it!) 

I learned 90% of the time there is a story behind the story you probably aren&#039;t aware of! 

Good work thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I so appreciate this article. </p>
<p>One thing we have to give consideration to is there is always a story behind the story. In my prior industry I would watch people who had been doing their business for 4 or 5 years and when someone new would start they would rocket past them in terms of income and status. </p>
<p>What they may not have seen is the years of hard work that person had been doing prior to starting at their current company. Just like in blogging, you don&#8217;t know how much work they had been doing in other area&#8217;s &#8220;before&#8221; they started their new blog. </p>
<p>Many times the comparison game is based on out of context thoughts and stories. </p>
<p>Love this post and you offer some very worthwhile ways of dealing with it. (And stopping it!) </p>
<p>I learned 90% of the time there is a story behind the story you probably aren&#8217;t aware of! </p>
<p>Good work thank you!<br />
<span class="cluv">Tony Teegarden recently posted..<a class="51acc7da00 8245" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TonyTeegarden/~3/8yUDWl7N3zY/">The My Guide To Creating More Cash In A Challenging Economy</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8245 7f382" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<dc:creator>{tuesday&#8217;s top 5 ~ how to posts}</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 04:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Jean Sarauer</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8147</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Sarauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:28:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Betty Jo. I&#039;m glad to meet you and so happy to hear you&#039;re finding the blog helpful too. Thanks for letting me know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Betty Jo. I&#8217;m glad to meet you and so happy to hear you&#8217;re finding the blog helpful too. Thanks for letting me know.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jean Sarauer recently posted..<a class="ef40ac84d4 8147" rel="external" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VirginBloggerNotes/~3/5Qy8PRp3C90/">Why Bite Size is the Right Size Content</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8147 56848" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Jean Sarauer</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8146</link>
		<dc:creator>Jean Sarauer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Eileen. Yes, being clear on that &#039;true north&#039; and returning to it when we stray, makes blogging a beautiful practice instead of a competitive pursuit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Eileen. Yes, being clear on that &#8216;true north&#8217; and returning to it when we stray, makes blogging a beautiful practice instead of a competitive pursuit.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jean Sarauer recently posted..<a class="e8a047b4e1 8146" rel="external" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VirginBloggerNotes/~3/5Qy8PRp3C90/">Why Bite Size is the Right Size Content</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8146 56848" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Betty Jo</title>
		<link>http://weblogbetter.com/2010/07/20/how-to-quit-the-blogging-comparathon/#comment-8132</link>
		<dc:creator>Betty Jo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 12:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jean I recently discovered and subscribed to your blog and your posts have been so very helpful and inspiring to me. This post is super! Excuse me, but I&#039;m going back to read through it a second time. Have a wonderful day . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jean I recently discovered and subscribed to your blog and your posts have been so very helpful and inspiring to me. This post is super! Excuse me, but I&#8217;m going back to read through it a second time. Have a wonderful day . . .<br />
<span class="cluv">Betty Jo recently posted..<a class="5b4a3f8225 8132" href="http://joywithless.blogspot.com/2010/07/lizard-diet.html">lizard diet</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip  8132 f66d6" alt="My Profile" style="border:0" width="16" height="14" src="http://weblogbetter.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv-premium/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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